My Mother in-law said today that we are allowed to grieve the life we had before. Not just before of this virus, but any other before. Back before I met my husband, in fact early teens, my Mother in-law was in a car accident. She almost lost her right arm, a doctor put it backContinue reading “the before”
Life must go on. While the world is in turmoil, people trying to stay positive. More has closed in Cushing. While my husband and I are both considered essential, we navigating our new life with more purpose. No more just running to the store when we are out of something. I am making it aContinue reading “Victory Garden”
Every morning since we were asked to stay home, I try to sleep in. If i sleep in the kids will and they will worry less if they are asleep. I can’t sleep my heart is full of worry. I make a cup of coffee and snuggle into my chair, husband fills me in onContinue reading “Silent Prayers”
There is light in these dark places, small kindnesses are going a long way.
Have you ever had to apologize for something that isn’t actually your fault? It’s hard to do and not fun. I have to say doing so hurt my feelings and I am going to make it my mission to never have to do it again. I took this very personally, I am a subscriber toContinue reading “the four agreements”
Took a day trip to Locust Grove, Oklahoma, a while back to visit Rural Oklahoma Museum of Poetry or ROMP. Shaun Perkins is the Creator of this amazing Museum off the beaten path. Locust Grove isn’t what one expects from small town Oklahoma. The quaint Community sits near the Border of Arkansas. A sleepy littleContinue reading “Day Trip”
My goal of Blogging everyday has failed miserably, but the goal of writing more has been achieved. I went with a friend and we interviewed our idol and her equally amazing husband for a Magazine that my company is publishing. I fangirled for days. Later we discovered our writing styles while they complement each other,Continue reading “Getting My Chair”
Every year since you left, I bake you a cake A recipe given to me by a grandmother who couldn’t remember me. A perfect cake for a man who didn’t know my name. My heart only speaks the love you gave me.
I have been talking about all this selfcare and how I am struggling to care for myself. I feel I should also say We are doing Marriage care. We don’t have time to date because of the Kids and the father in-law, our work, life gets in the way. Daddy T-REX has a odd schedule,Continue reading “Claim”